Registered in Ireland: Sometimes, however, she bites hard and it really hurts. Biting can be a strangely pleasurable experience. The reason why is difficult to describe, but biting is actually an important part of our evolutionary heritage. In their fascinating book Patterns of Sexual Behaviour the anthropologist Clellan S Ford and the ethologist Frank A Beach suggested that sexual biting is common in a number of societies, but it appears to be something women enjoy more than men. Your girlfriend clearly loves the sensation of biting your skin, but when she is sexually aroused she loses her capacity to recognise how far is too far, and ends up hurting you. Sexual biting is a passionate and animalistic behaviour that emerges when people are highly aroused. Arousal is not an exclusively sexual experience. Whether the trigger is anger, fear, or the desire to win, any experience that heightens adrenaline puts you into a state of arousal, and biting seems to be an expression of that arousal. Biting hurts, and that is reason enough to find a way to stop this happening, but it can also be dangerous.
What Is Sexual Biting?
It's true that 50 Shades of Gray may have gotten a lot wrong about kinks and fetishes…. I recently wrote about rope bondage , and how one study found that more and more women are open to trying it. But what about other kinks and fetishes — for example, sensual biting? Many women enjoy slightly rough sex on a pretty regular basis, and this includes the act of biting during foreplay or intercourse. This form of sexual biting can range from minimal biting to increase a woman's arousal… all the way to intense biting that draws blood. Knowing that, it's no surprise, then, to hear that most women fantasize about incorporating biting into sex. But why exactly does biting turn her on so quickly?
Takeaway: There is nothing sweeter than sinking your teeth into your lover in order to satisfy your insatiable hunger. In fact as a fetish, it's called odaxelagnia , and it refers to sexual arousal through biting or being bitten. Considered "mild sadism," Alfred Kinsey found that half of the people he surveyed were interested, and turned on, by biting. So, what's the deal? Liz Powell , a sex- and kink-positive psychologist. In addition, some get turned on by common fantasy creatures, like vampires and werewolves, whose primal traits can have sexual undertones. While sensual biting does not necessarily have any association with being a vampire, we can't help but sink our teeth into that thought - especially as we're ringing in the Halloween festivities. Nevertheless, while biting is separate from blood play that's another topic entirely , it does activate a sensual arousal that is feral, animal-like, and super sexy. Brenda Love, writes that sexual biting is one of the "easiest and most accepted methods" of sadism and masochism in the bedroom. How can you begin penetrating the topic of biting?
Long before Edward and Bella started gnawing on each other on the big screen, biting during sex has been a sign of passion. It's a little naughty and a lot hot—the perfect way to show him how much he turns you on. As with yesterday's post on hair-pulling , I've broken down the move into three categories so you can experiment with the one that works for you. Men's erogenous zones are often overlooked, so show him what a giver you are by playfully and gently biting his neck. Unless he loves turtlenecks and for your sake, I hope they're not mock , do NOT give him a hickey.